He's expecting me and mum to go with him to see Karen so that he feels better about the fact that this woman is clearly more than a 'friend' I'm not participating in it and mum shouldn't have to either. She knows you look at her with more you fucking idiot, how you think everyone's oblivious to it I don't know. Mum won't be convinced that she shouldn't feel she has to go, might try seeing if she wants to come some where on the day he's trying to get us to go with him with me.